<\/a>Adultery is quite commonplace amongst modern couples, and with the internet and mobile phones it\u2019s easier than ever for an unfaithful partner to conceal their whereabouts. While your cheating other half may try to hide his mistress, being unfaithful requires a lot of attention to detail that escapes many men. Those who aren\u2019t careful enough leave plenty of clues or behave oddly to try to cover their actions. If you suspect your\u00a0beloved might be doing the dirty, read on for the seven main\u00a0signs that will confirm your\u00a0suspicions:
\n1.\u00a0 He starts to lose weight and buy new clothes<\/strong>
\nIf your typically dishevelled significant other begins a new vigorous exercise regime and dresses better, he either has a renewed outlook on vanity or he\u2019s being unfaithful. \u201cIf a man takes a new interest in wardrobe, hair, nails, skin, he might be trying to attract the attention of a woman (or man),\u201d says psychologist Stephanie Buehler. New suits, shoes and cologne are clues that he may be playing away.
\n2.\u00a0 Less sex<\/strong>
\n\u201cIf he’s not interested in sex with you, he may be getting his needs met elsewhere,\u201d says psychotherapist Dr. Tina Tessina, author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage (Adams Media, \u00a38.99). Another indicator that he may be unfaithful is if he\u2019s trying new adventurous moves on you in the bedroom. Perhaps he\u2019s getting extra practice and special tutoring in another woman\u2019s boudoir.
\n3.\u00a0 He disappears for long periods of time<\/strong>
\nStay aware of his changes in habits. Danine Manette, author of Ultimate Betrayal: Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing with Infidelity (Square One Publishers, \u00a38.99) says, \u201cHe\u2019s most likely cheating if he begins leaving earlier for work, staying later, taking longer or going more often.\u201d Also pay attention to how much time he spends away from home for extracurricular activities. \u201cBe forewarned if outside activities become more frequent and tend to last longer than before,\u201d Manette adds. Lastly, be extra suspicious if he is unreachable when he is away from home. \u201cIf he says he’s working late, but doesn’t pick up his phone or read his texts, that’s a bad sign,\u201d says Dr. Buehler.
\n4.\u00a0 Unexplained credit card bills or expenses<\/strong>
\nEven if your partner is not buying gifts and hotel stays for his new lady friend, you may notice charges for fancy late-night meals. \u201cUnidentifiable charges on his credit card are often the clue that catches him,\u201d says Dr. Tessina. Study his bills and receipts and make sure all his stories match. If he says he went for a run and you see a charge for an expensive dinner, you\u2019ve caught him red-handed.
\n5.\u00a0 You can\u2019t access his computer or his mobile phone
\nInvestigate further if he suddenly changes his passwords, erases his web history, or hides his mobile phone. Why? \u201cToday, many people who are having affairs are found out by their mobile phone records, which will typically have numerous calls to the same person,\u201d says family therapist Donna Tonrey. \u201cAlso, email and internet records often are a give-away as to what is happening.\u201d If he\u2019s masking his actions he’ll do his best to change all his log-in details and PIN codes, it’s a suggestion that your beloved is being disloyal.
\n6.\u00a0 Changes in his attitude towards you<\/strong>
\nYour once lovable partner now picks fights with you and criticises the way you look, cook, or dress. He may be looking for ways to get out of the relationship, or, \u201che may be comparing you to the new girl,\u201d maintains Manette. Conversely, it\u2019s also cause for concern if he is abnormally sweet and caring towards you. Those lovely dozen roses every week signal that either he feels guilty about his transgressions, or is thankful you haven\u2019t figured him out yet.
\n7.\u00a0 Your female instinct<\/strong>
\nEven with all these telltale indicators, no sign is more revealing than the feeling in your gut. Manette says, \u201cYou know your partner better than anyone else and you will be the first to notice changes in behaviour (working out more, more irritable than usual, increased\/decreased sexual appetite), changes in schedule (travelling more, spending more time away, etc), and changes in the way he interacts with you in general,\u201d she explains. \u201cMost women report that in retrospect they saw the signs but either ignored them or explained them away.” Instead of disregarding the warnings, open a line of communication with your partner about your feelings.<\/p>\n

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